I had high hopes for my latest game. It was an ambitious idea, had a lot of player buy in, and I’ve done a lot of prep to make sure things run smooth at the table. It has been going okay, but some things just haven’t been clicking. Delays in being able to game have caused gaps, character’s have been at crossed ends in-game, and the general feel I was hoping for has slowly been ebbing away. The game isn’t bad, but it isn’t the epic life and death struggle for a city’s existence that I had hoped it would be. Instead of digging into the epic faery tale and story elements and coming up with unique solutions, players have been falling back into old ideas and treating things like an old school video game RPG instead of an old school faery tale. One player recently brought his new tablet to game so that he could take notes, despite the implicit rule we all agreed upon that mobile devices weren’t allowed as they would break the verisimilitude. The game isn’t crashing and burning yet, but it isn’t the game I started running. Phil’s recent series of articles have made me look at my campaign and wonder if I should end it or push on and try to bring it back to the original concept, trying to make it great.

But Then There Is The Third Option, Roll With It And Allow A Controlled Burn

file5201296413331Rather than cut the game off entirely or work to bring it back in line with the original concept, there is a third option that I’m going to try. I’m going to see what happens if I just roll with the way it is going. Like I said, the game isn’t bad, it’s just deviating away from the initial concept. It is much less epic journey of self discovery and more humans stuck in a new world, but still dealing with things like RPG characters, not real people, would. There is a mix of the original feel and this new thing that has emerged. Less, work to save the world and tweak your thinking to overcome your fey competitors, more discovering that magic exists and treating it like the players would if they suddenly learned that it existed in the world.  About half the players are still trying for the original feel, and a few just don’t get the concepts and themes being presented, even when efforts have been made to put things as plainly as possible. The players who are working within the original paradigm are slipping into the mindset of the other players, almost out of necessity.

Why out of necessity? Have you ever been in a D&D game, trying to roleplay out your character and grab all of the Game Master’s juicy story and plot, only to watch the player who is just there for the killing and rolling rush ahead into danger. Even if that isn’t the type of game you wanted, it’s the type of game that is currently, in this instant, being played. If you want to be part of the game, you’ve got to rush into combat or push against the tide.

When you are the Game Master and notice this type of thing going on, it’s hard to pick the correct path. In most games, you, as the Game Master, are partially responsible for what goes on at the table. You may have wanted and started running Game A, and most players are player that, or at the least Game B, which is as close as they get to your original vision. But if something is causing some of your players to be playing Game F, you’ve got some problems. You want it to be fun for everybody, so what do you do? Easy, you roll with it and allow a controlled burn? But how?

Actually Doing It – Allow The Right Fires

Ok, here is what I’m doing for my game. I’m watching for areas where the verisimilitude or the feel of the original concept is being broken and, on a case by case basis, determining if I should let that happen or not. If it is the sort of thing that threatens to decimate more of the game if allowed, then I put it out with the appropriate strategy – talking to the player, disallowing it in game, telling the player it just isn’t feasible, making it an appropriately hard roll, etc. If it is the sort of fire that will burn out and clear a path for something more fun, I’ll let it  happen.

How do you tell? Well, that is all in your hands and very dependent on your game. Here are some situations I’ve encountered.

Fires I Let Burn

  • The first session back after about a 2 week break, the group was all jokey and laughing about the latest video or internet memes we’d seen. We hadn’t seen each imageother for a while, but we only had 3 hours to play in. Meh, I let it slide and we got very very little done. The next session went well though. Everyone got it out of their system.
  • The players have been making constant references to video game experiences. “If this were  a video game, we would have had a random encounter every 5 steps!”. These are completely out of game, but they break the idea and the feel of the journey that I’m trying to create. They are minor, but frequent, and trying to stop the behavior wouldn’t actually benefit me or the game any.
  • An epic duel that was supposed to show the players the real threat they were under became a hilarious comedy of errors. The player involved called a dog to be one of the witnesses, misinterpreting the way the court worked, then accidentally shot a noblewoman in the arm. The players couldn’t stop laughing, the epicness was ruined…. but they were having a great time. Rather than try to bring them back on track, I rolled with it and made consequences more comedic than deadly. The opponent, too busy laughing, shot the dog in the leg. The game moved on, new alliances were forged, the noblewoman got a dog with a matching wound. It turned out well in the end.
  • One player decided to challenge people to games of chess. His first challenge was, unknowingly, to the supreme mage of the court. He rolled well enough and utilized his points to beat him. The mage was chastised in the eyes of the court, for being beaten by a mortal, and a big later game story point was in jeopardy. Rather than trying to keep the mage a big elusive figure, he opted to take the PC  under his wing because of his great potential. It wasn’t part of the original story, but it burned away some obstacles and the PCs have a new venue.

Fires I Put Out

  • One player keeps ignoring reminders from an NPC to whom he owes a favor. Rather than pestering him to go about fulfilling the debt after the 3rd reminder, I’ve let it slide. The NPC didn’t forget though, and worked against the player, publicly calling him out. The PC tried to fulfill the favor, but it was too late. He got penalized in game and realized how debts matter here.
  • Joking got to be too distracting after a few sessions, so I implemented a very minor XP penalty. We only get 3 hours to game in every night, so we can’t waste a lot of time if we want to get much done. After the XP penalty, imagethings quieted down. We’ve waived it occasionally (like when we are back from a break), but we’ve also taken every 3rd or 4th session off to just hang  out.
  • Another player attempted to combine some of his learned powers and skills to make a huge power jump by stealing memories. The memory fueling system we’ve used is that the memories get burned up once they are used. He is attempting to use other magics to make them permanent, and out of game asking for it without any sacrifice or XP cost. I talked with him about why it wouldn’t work, and laid out the few situations where he would have to
  • We agreed upon some explicit rules at the beginning of the game. No mobile devices was one of them. We even cover up the TV that sits behind me with a Green Man styled cloth. It’s a minor detail, but in a game where the characters are supposed to be stuck in a magical world that shouldn’t exist, it helps with the feel. One player had just purchased a brand new tablet and decided to bring it in to take pictures of the NPC cards I’d made and handed to the players when they met a new person. I asked him why he was doing that, and he said that was how he was taking notes from now on. I reminded him of the rule about no mobile devices or computers, and a minor fracas ensued. I asked him why one of several other options wouldn’t work (taking notes on the back of the cards, keeping them in the notebook he already brought, etc.). He said this was the only way he could take notes, despite already being meticulous about it. I told him that I wasn’t going to allow it, but that answer might have been different if he had just asked me for an exemption to the rule that we all agreed upon, instead of just brining it in and assuming. Now, it’s a straight no. It would be fine in another game, and perfect in a futuristic game, but this one is all about dealing with unnatural situations in an unknown world.

Don’t Make Changes Publicly, Do It Invisibly

The best of all rulers is but a shadowy presence to his subjects.

Hesitant, he does not utter words lightly.
When his task is accomplished and his work done
The people all say, ‘It happened to us naturally.’

– Tao Te Ching, Chapter 17

One final thing about this, whatever fires you let burn or changes you make to roll with the direction the game is taking, do it invisibly. If you decide to start ignoring a house rule, just keep ignoring. Don’t point out that you are ignoring it from now on, unless there is some mitigating reason to. If ignoring the rule is the natural flow of where the game is going, it is better to let it just drift that way. When one of the players points out that we’ve been forgetting the rule, say ‘Meh, it was cramping things. Let’s ignore just that one from here on out.”. Doing it this way doesn’t stop the game, nor does it point out that you are fundamentally changing the nature of the game on them.

Final Thoughts
Rolling with the flow of things and letting fires burn is all about clearing things out of the way for more fun and enjoyment. You’ve got to determine what the right things to say yes to are, and what the right things to say no to are. Either way, you are dealing with things that might be destructive to your game. Letting go of some of the gravitas might be as dangerous as putting in tighter controls to contain it. If your game is seeing some drift, take a second to determine what areas you should let happen and what ones you should try to reign in.

Have you ever faced this situation? Has a game you’ve run drifted off course? What sorts of things have  you tried to reign in and how did it work? What sorts of things have you let go?

8 replies
  1. Macona
    Macona says:

    Great advice, but I think when you have players like that you need to let most of the fires burn.

    You obviously take your roleplay games very seriously. I’m the same, it’s my favourite hobby and I only get to play a weekly 3 hour session so I too want to make the most of it.

    Most of my players do not have the same mindset, and are just there to see friends and have fun. Each session begins with a 15 minute ‘how’s your week been?’ style conversation between players and the game is often interrupted by general silliness (and don’t get me started on Monty Python quotes!).

    Unfortunately, you can’t force players to immerse themselves or you’ll just end up driving them away. Run the game your players want (and perhaps cry a little inside).

  2. Chaosmarine
    Chaosmarine says:

    It’s a tough one. Every campaign i’ve ever run for a significant amount of time has evolved over time. It’s a result I think of players breaking in their characters and personalities, elements of the world and campaign that draw or repel them, and personal attitudes/home situations.

    In the end, I agree a balance of storytelling, imagination and enjoying friends company is the key.

    One note I’ll suggest, is technology can be hindrance or benefit (or both). I went down the road of using my corporate benefit and inviting my group to all purchase insanely cheap tablets for use at the table but everyone or nobody had to get them. The first few weeks were them using these damn things for everything from pictures to games. But it settled down and now we have music, pdf books/online resources readily available and the video calling to chat has been a cool addition. 🙂

  3. Scott Martin
    Scott Martin says:

    It’s almost easier to ask which games haven’t gone off course! My response over time has evolved; I try to read my players more, now, and shift to a consensus play instead of trying to drag them over to the game I want.

    One obvious tip: don’t leap to penalizing a character without reiterating your requests to the players and pointing out drift. It may feel like you’re avoiding the conflict (because it’s now a game issue)… but that sleight of hand doesn’t actually remove it as a social issue.

  4. Walt Ciechanowski
    Walt Ciechanowski says:

    Great article!

    The only thing I’d add is to make sure that your own enthusiasm isn’t sapped from making the changes. If you aren’t having fun with it, then it becomes a chore to keep running.

  5. John Arcadian
    John Arcadian says:

    @Macona – This game is a little different from our normal ones, and it has been a hard adjustment. Our games are often the excuse for us to make time to hang out, but this one was a theme game with a definite goal. I’m definitely going to run the next game more loose, but they’ll probably be in the mood for a serious game at that point.

    @Chaosmarine – For another type of game, I’d definitely be trying to leverage technology instead of denying it. Doing a Tech Noir or shadworun game with cheap tablets would be awesome. It would fit the theme perfectly.

    @Scott Martin – Definitely. Penalizing players should be something done after other, gentler actions are tried. At the end of the day, you are all friends choosing to spend your time gaming. You don’t want the gaming to get in the way of being friends.

    @Walt Ciechanowski – Thanks. Yeah, some games that start out great can drift so far that they aren’t fun to run anymore. I’d rather ditch or wrap up a game early rather than run myself into the ground with it.

  6. BryanB
    BryanB says:

    Nice article John.

    One thing I do disagree with, however, is having any form of in-game penalty (docked exp, items, bennies etc.) for social behavior issues at the table. I’ve found that punishing out of game actions with in game penalties just leads to even greater issues out of game.

    I think it is best to talk about out of game issues out of game. Thus making the solution part of a group discussion and something that isn’t connected to the game itself. Just my ten cents.

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